What traditions have you not kept that your parents had?

What traditions have you not kept that your parents had?

One tradition I have not continued from my parents’ generation is the observance of traditional gender roles in the family. In my parents’ time, responsibilities in the household were clearly divided based on gender. For example, women were expected to cook, clean, and care for the children, while men handled finances, discipline, and major decision-making.

However, in my life, I believe in a more balanced and equal approach. I don’t think tasks should be assigned based on gender. Everyone in the family should be able to cook, clean, work, or contribute financially. I also believe fathers should be just as involved in parenting and emotional support as mothers.

Letting go of those traditional roles doesn’t mean I disrespect what my parents practiced — I understand that their choices were shaped by the society and culture of their time. But I also recognize that times have changed, and I want to build a more equal and flexible home life that works for everyone involved.